"Let's Put a Smile on That Face"  Cpat92
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It's all or nothing
Lauderhill, Florida
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| When I'm gone to some, it will be like I never existed. To some I will be missed. I say so be it. I will be glad to be gone because some weren't real to me anyways. I'll be moving on and moving to better things. No more nonsense for me. | |
Drgnfly83
| And a new beginning to look forward to. Take advantage of it.
And to those that you don't matter to, good ridden!  |
Cpat92
It's all or nothing
| | Yeah, good ridden to them. Just wished if they were going to be this way, they shouldn't have tried to be my friend. |
Drgnfly83
| Yeah, but you never know how people are going to be or what their motivations are behind why they became your friend to begin with. Not everyone has a pure heart and goes into a relationship (of whatever kind) with the intentions of being honest and nice and whatever. People use you, walk all over you and call when they need something. That is just how some people are. It's not your fault you were trying to be a friend and that isn't what they had intentions of. You just have to learn how to tell which ones are honest and pure about a friendship and which ones are using you for their own benefits.
Also...some people just drift away in a friendship. It doesn't mean you should write them off. It just means that you both grew and changed and no longer held the same interests.
You have to figure out if people are there for a reason, the season or life! One day you will be a better judge of that. |
Cpat92
It's all or nothing
| | I hope so. |
Electric_Banana
| Dude.....you're only going to be away for four years in the military. 
Introspection: looking back at my early twenties. I was never a friend or romance to anyone - Just an experiment.
But I had no say in the matter about coming into life, don't expect much of a say during it. I can only patiently wait it out and when I lay my head down for the final time hope to never appear here or anywhere else ever again. |
Drgnfly83
| @Electric_Banana Said 
Dude.....you're only going to be away for four years in the military.
Introspection: looking back at my early twenties. I was never a friend or romance to anyone - Just an experiment.
But I had no say in the matter about coming into life, don't expect much of a say during it. I can only patiently wait it out and when I lay my head down for the final time hope to never appear here or anywhere else ever again.
He is actually talking about moving. Not going into the military. But, in the same sense, when that time comes as well, he will have to do the same as he is doing now, just with a different group of people. I know a lot of what he is dealing with, and unfortunately in life, it happens to all of us...he just isn't experienced enough to really know how to handle the situations he is being faced with or he questions it so to speak a little...can't say that I knew at 20 how to handle all situations I was faced with. I am proud of him for at least voicing some of the things he voices and for all the people that give him advice on how to handle the situations, and actually listens and takes the advice. |
townie_guy
| | Yeah I didn't have much life advice when I joined the military. I just packed my bags and got dropped off at basic training. Then I realised that I had led a very sheltered life. |
Cpat92
It's all or nothing
| I know I'm leaving soon. It's just that after hearing the news of moving, a lot of things are starting to change for me. Some of my friends are starting to look a bit odd to me. I don't want to lose any friendships, but I have to start reevaluating my friends in Mass. I might end some friendships and/or we might fall apart. I'm trying to work through it without building any more stress.  One that worries me the most is my best friend Sedina. I love her dearly almost as much as the closest friend I have, Lauren. (Difference is I feel that the friendship I have with Lauren is that we have past best friends. I feel like we are brother and sister.) I will be very sad if the friendship between me and Sedina ends, but I will have to move on. |
townie_guy
| | Its not the changes in your life that define who you are. But how you deal with them. |
Cpat92
It's all or nothing
| @townie_guy Said
Its not the changes in your life that define who you are. But how you deal with them.
Wow, I didn't even think about that. |
Drgnfly83
| @Cpat92 Said
I know I'm leaving soon. It's just that after hearing the news of moving, a lot of things are starting to change for me. Some of my friends are starting to look a bit odd to me. I don't want to lose any friendships, but I have to start reevaluating my friends in Mass. I might end some friendships and/or we might fall apart. I'm trying to work through it without building any more stress. One that worries me the most is my best friend Sedina. I love her dearly almost as much as the closest friend I have, Lauren. (Difference is I feel that the friendship I have with Lauren is that we have past best friends. I feel like we are brother and sister.) I will be very sad if the friendship between me and Sedina ends, but I will have to move on.
I think I already told you that you don't have to lose all your friends. It will show the ones that are your real friends. If Lauren chooses to let the friendship drift apart, you can do nothing to change that. It is by her choice. Just because you don't see each other daily, doesn't mean you end a friendship, it just means you have to get more creative in the ways you see/talk/communicate with each other. Start emailing each other, write snail-mail letters once in a while just to say hi and i miss you, text, call, do random visits. Things don't HAVE to change. The only change that HAS to happen is the changes you decide you want to make and even then, that change doesn't have to happen. |
sAeGeSpAeNe
Part-time Nidologist
| @Cpat92 Said When I'm gone to some, it will be like I never existed. To some I will be missed. I say so be it. I will be glad to be gone because some weren't real to me anyways. I'll be moving on and moving to better things. No more nonsense for me.
As long as you make a record of your password, and somehow associate it with this site, you will be able to contact any or all of us, here. While you are gone (from the internet), we won't forget you. And, when you find a way to access the internet, your friends here will be able to prove themselves real to you...
No screwing around, Chris, and good luck in New Jersey. I was hoping that we would somehow run into one another, but that is going to have to be put on hold, for a while. |
Cpat92
It's all or nothing
| @Drgnfly83 Said
I think I already told you that you don't have to lose all your friends. It will show the ones that are your real friends. If Lauren chooses to let the friendship drift apart, you can do nothing to change that. It is by her choice. Just because you don't see each other daily, doesn't mean you end a friendship, it just means you have to get more creative in the ways you see/talk/communicate with each other. Start emailing each other, write snail-mail letters once in a while just to say hi and i miss you, text, call, do random visits. Things don't HAVE to change. The only change that HAS to happen is the changes you decide you want to make and even then, that change doesn't have to happen.
I'm not worried if me and Lauren will drift apart. I know we won't. She's my most loyal friend. I can tell her everything. I'm mainly worried about losing Sedina though. I was just comparing my friendshipwith Sedina with the friendship with Lauren. |
scardycat
| You never really lose true friends. You may only see them once in a while but when you do catch up I have found things havent changed at all. There lives have changed but as a person and how they are towards you when you get together you still laugh at those stupid things you always laughed at.
Those you do lose were never what you can call a true friend there no great lost |
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When I'm Gone
August 21, 2012 @ 05:36:53 pm
